Lucky Seven · · 3 min read

Thomas Erikson and fish

Thomas Erikson and fish
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Lucky Seven: A weekly letter featuring seven inspiring quotes and my reflections. Feel free to share with others!

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Hello, and welcome to season 2 of Quirky Quests! It's nice to have you around, and I hope to find some cool things here! Some new things are in the mix; I hope to share them soon!

Today, let's explore some quotes shared by Thomas Erikson.

If everyone were a driven leader, there would be no one left to be led. If everyone were an enthusiastic entertainer, there would be no one to amuse. And if everyone were a detail-oriented perfectionist, there wouldn’t be anything to keep in order.

Balance really is the name of the game. If everyone were a driven leader, we'd have a bunch of captains but no crew to sail the ship. If everyone were an entertainer, we'd all be performing with no one left to clap. And if everyone were a perfectionist, we'd never finish anything because it wouldn't ever be 'just right.' The magic happens when we mix it up—a bit of leadership here, some entertainment there, and a touch of perfectionism to keep things in check. So, own your role, and remember, it's the variety that keeps life exciting and the wheels turning.


Introverted doesn’t mean silent; it means active in the inner world.

Introverted doesn't mean silent; it means having a party in your head. While the world might see a quiet exterior, there's a whole lot of thinking, imagining, and daydreaming going on inside. So, if you ever catch an introvert staring off into space, know they're probably crafting epic stories, solving world problems, or planning their next brilliant idea. Silence on the outside often means fireworks on the inside.


It’s all about the mask you wear to fit into a given situation. We all have several different masks. Having one at work and one at home isn’t that unusual. And another one for visiting the in-laws, perhaps.

Ah, the Mask Collection™—we've all got one! The work mask, the home mask, the "I swear I like your cooking" in-law mask. It's like being in a never-ending masquerade ball. But here's a fun thought: what if we intentionally wore the wrong mask for a day? Show up at work with your in-law mask and see how many awkward compliments and strained smiles you can collect. Life's too short always to fit in—sometimes it's more fun to mix up the masks and watch the hilarity ensue!


What did our mothers teach us? Treat others as you want to be treated. Excellent advice and very well intentioned. And it works, too—as long as everyone is just like you.

Ah, the golden rule—classic mom wisdom. But here's the kicker: not everyone loves pineapple on pizza, and some genuinely enjoy listening to elevator music. So, instead of assuming everyone wants the same treatment, how about we upgrade Mom's advice to version 2.0? Try this: "Treat others as they want to be treated." It'll save you from awkward pineapple debates and unexpected kazoo solos. Plus, it makes life a lot more interesting when we embrace our differences!


Children learn and develop in multiple ways, but the most common is by imitation.

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Child psychologists have argued that the things we find most shocking in the behavior of our children are the things we recognize in ourselves—but wish we didn’t do.

Ah, kids—tiny human mirrors reflecting our finest and not-so-finest moments. They learn by imitation, alright. Ever notice how your mini-me picks up your exact eye roll when you're stuck in traffic? It's like looking into a pint-sized, brutally honest mirror. Next time you catch your kid doing something shocking, remember: they're your personal highlight reel. Instead of freaking out, maybe take it as a cue to polish up those cringe-worthy habits. After all, they're just showing us what we look like in real life—and let's face it, sometimes it's pretty hilarious!


Only dead fish go with the flow.

Ah, the wisdom of the aquatic world! Sure, only dead fish go with the flow, but have you ever seen a live fish fighting the current? They're out there doing fish CrossFit, building those fin muscles. So, next time someone tells you to go with the flow, channel your inner live fish and swim against it. Who knows? You might discover new waters, avoid the fishy clichés, and maybe even find Nemo. Keep swimming, and make some waves!


Have a great week ahead, and see you on the next occasion!

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